Monday, October 8, 2007

The Gay Sex Dictionary (continued)

To continue with our comprehensive list...

Sixty-nine (69)- both partners pleasure each other equally and at the same time. With a male and female, generally the female performs oral sex on the male, while he performs oral sex on her vaginal area. With two men, each generally performs fellatio on the other at the same time. Some find this form of sex less than satisfying as you are in the mist of working on your partner while being pleasured yourself and are not able to fully enjoy the pleasure being performed on you. Others enjoy the experience thoroughly.

Cruising- general term for looking for sex, it can occur anywhere, from the grocery store to the local gay bar, Internet, or the bathroom at the nearest home depot.

Trick- basically a one-time encounter, usually involving oral sex, mutual masterbation, etc, and sometimes, although rarely, anal sex. A trick is someone you never intend to see again.

TS- transsexual. This refers to someone who identifies with the opposite sex of that which they were born. Most often, when using this term, the individual has undergone surgery to become the opposite sex, or is in the process of doing so with hormone treatments, etc.

TV- transvestite, drag-queen. This refers to a person that dresses like the opposite sex. They do not necessarily have any intentions of becoming or identify with the opposite sex.

Transgendered- refers to anyone with gender identity issues, including TV, TS, and Intersex individuals.

Intersex- a person who is born with physical or physiological abnormalities and whose genitals may not directly link them to either gender. Their physical being is often sexually ambiguous.

Handjob- sometimes referred to as mutual masturbation, although reciprocation is not always present. Fairly self explanatory, one partner pleasures the other's genitals with his hands.

DD free- Internet lingo for drug and disease free. Generally means he's claiming to be free of STD's and doesn't use drugs.

Nipple play- yes ladies, men are sensitive there, too. It can range from simple touching and rubbing of the nipples to rougher forms of biting, clamping, etc. I've known several men that when touched there, they became instantly aroused, even with only minor touching.

Prince Albert- refers to a common type of penile piercing.

Water sports- sounds innocent enough, but actually involves sexually pleasing someone by urinating on them (or even in them). I knew a friend who went into a bar in England where a man lay in a bathtub in the restroom where gentleman could come in and urinate on him. personally, I don't understand the appeal.

Steamer- (as long as we're getting dirty, might as well go all the way). This practice involves lying down with plastic wrap over the face and allowing someone to stand over you and defecate onto the plastic wrap, thus creating 'steam.' Apparently there are boutiques in New York where you can pay to have this done.

Dirty Sanchez- This one is rather humorous, although rather disgusting as well. It involves doggy-style anal sex in which there may be a little bit of a mess (don't make me spell it out for you), getting it on your finger, and then rubbing it across your partner's (the bottom's) upper lip like a mustaches as you are giving it to him from behind.

Cement- refers to ejaculate (cum) that has been ejaculated into the rectum during anal sex. Physically harmless, but often a little messy when coming back out.

Pig Play- refers to 'dirty' sex. Generally it is sweaty, raunchy, sometimes downright nasty. Can involve water sports, fecal matter, etc.

Douching or enemas-not just for women, there are rather elaborate devices available on the Internet or at your local adult bookstore for the cleansing of the private areas. Of course, with men, it involves cleaning the rectum/anal area. Some even find the process rather sexually arousing. Water or other liquids are inserted into the bodies cavities and the ejected back out to cleanse the desired area. The general purpose is to prevent any unsavory accident from happening during the sex act.

Glory-hole- generally it refers any hole that a man's genitals can fit through for someone to pleasure on the other side. This is the epitome of anonymous sex as you may never see your partner during the act. They can be anywhere, but most often are found between stalls in public restrooms, adult bookstore video booths, or gay bathhouses.

Gay-for-pay- refers to a male porn star who has gay sex for money on camera, but is actually straight in real life.

LGBT- Standing for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgendered, this abbreviation is often used to represent the Gay community in general.

Poz- abbreviation for someone who is HIV positive. Often used in Internet profiles.

Voyeurism- refers to getting sexually aroused by watching someone else naked or having sex, usually without that person/people knowing. Sort of a peeping-Tom phenomenon.

Exhibitionism- refers to getting sexually aroused by exposing one's genitals to others, often in public.

Power Bottom- may seem like an oxmoron, as a bottom is usually submissive during the sexual act, but they are out there. A power bottom takes control of the sex act, often inserting his partners member into himself and taking control of the pace and position of the sex act. Basically, a dominant bottom.

Well, that's all I can think of at the moment, if any term comes up that you do not know the meaning of, just ask, I'll do my best to clarify.

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